You can Win - Shiv Khera

You Can Win by Shiv Khera is an inspiring self-help book that focuses on developing a positive attitude as the foundation of success. The author begins by emphasizing that our attitude determines our success or failure — it is not our circumstances but how we respond to them that matters. He then explains how attitudes are shaped by environment and experience, and how anyone can transform negative thinking into a constructive one through self-awareness, affirmations, and positive surroundings.

Khera redefines success as the progressive realization of a worthy goal, stressing that true success lies in balancing career, relationships, and personal growth. Motivation, he says, must come from within; external rewards may excite, but only inner drive sustains. The book also highlights the importance of self-esteem — confidence built on self-respect and acceptance — as the key to unlocking potential.

Interpersonal skills form another major theme, with Khera stressing that effective communication, empathy, and sincerity are essential for lasting success. He further explains how habits and the subconscious mind shape behavior, reminding readers that “first we form habits, then they form us.” Setting clear, written goals is vital for progress, and consistent effort turns dreams into achievements.

In the end, Shiv Khera reminds readers that success without integrity has no value. Honesty, ethics, and discipline give meaning to achievement. With simple language, real-life stories, and practical exercises, You Can Win serves as a step-by-step guide to building confidence, character, and a winning mindset — proving that winners don’t do different things; they do things differently.

~Arya~

The Inspirational Story of Abraham Lincoln (from You Can Win)

Shiv Khera recounts the life of Abraham Lincoln as a powerful example of perseverance. Lincoln faced failure after failure throughout his life — in business, politics, and even his personal life. He failed in business at the age of 21, lost a legislative election at 22, failed again in business at 24, lost his sweetheart at 26, had a nervous breakdown at 27, lost congressional races several times, and was defeated in his bid for the Senate and Vice Presidency. Yet, despite all these setbacks, Lincoln never gave up. He believed that every failure was a lesson preparing him for success. Finally, at the age of 51, after decades of struggle, he became the 16th President of the United States.

The story of Abraham Lincoln in You Can Win teaches that failure is not the opposite of success — it is part of success. True winners are those who keep trying when everything seems against them. Persistence, patience, and a positive attitude can transform defeat into triumph. Lincoln’s life reminds us that no failure is final unless we give up.